ABOUT DR.STACII

Unlearning Survival Love. Mastering Healthy Connection.

Success in the boardroom shouldn’t require a compromise in your private life. Welcome to a relational intelligence practice providing clinical expertise to help high-achieving leaders master emotional safety and secure attachment.

If you are exhausted from over-functioning, over-giving, and choosing partners who require you to shrink your power, it is time to pivot. True connection begins when you choose a love that values your softest energy just as much as your greatest strengths.

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SOME FACTS

GET TO KNOW DR. STACII

  • Forever Playful: I still love to paint, play jacks, play hopscotch, ride scooters, and fly kites.
  • Fearless Thrill-Seeker: I can't swim, but I've swum with dolphins, jumped off a cliff in Jamaica, and leaped off the Stratosphere in Las Vegas.
  • Global Explorer: I am deeply passionate about world travel, from exploring the ancient paths of Machu Picchu to going on several African safaris.
  • Stage Strategy: I love translating deep psychology into mainstream culture, whether I'm speaking on a global TEDx stage or hosting my video podcast.
  • My Mission: I’m fascinated by how the brain can unlearn and reprogram through neuroplasticity—introducing new possibilities in thinking and feeling that lead to new action. I am obsessed with using this science to help successful, analytical women drop their hyper-independence and step into soft, secure love.
  • The Bottom Line: I believe the hardest journey you will ever take is the twelve inches from your head to your heart—and I founded The House of H.E.A.R.T. Foundation so you don't have to do it alone.
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MY CREDENTIALS

Real-World Research. Clinical Grounding. Proven Secure Outcomes.

Academic Excellence

Valedictorian of her graduating class at Touro University Worldwide, holding a Master of Arts degree in Marriage and Family Therapy, and a proud alumna of Spelman College.

Clinical Specialization

Expertly trained in trauma-informed boundary setting, secure attachment strategies, and clinical relational intelligence frameworks.

National Media Presence

Over two decades of trusted media authority, expanding from major motion pictures and elite broadcast radio into national television as the relationship expert on OWN's Put A Ring On It.

Economic Impact Frameworks

Nominated for the Atlanta Business Chronicle’s Women of Influence award for her innovative frameworks that transition leaders into secure, dual-income households to drive community wealth and workforce resilience.

Institutional Recognition

Formally honored with the Presidential Lifetime Achievement Award and named one of Atlanta’s Top 25 Women for her outstanding contributions to emotional wellness and relationship education.

Bestselling Literature

Author of Don't Be a TAW, God Said YES, and the bestseller Just Date Girl, translating a decade of deep behavioral field research and spiritual alignment into concrete strategies to break toxic generational patterns.

An Anthem for ‘A Different Kinda Woman’

"THIS IS MY SELFTITUDE, GROUNDED AND FREE. UNMASKING THE WOMAN I WAS ALWAYS MEANT TO BE. NO PERMISSION REQUESTED, NO VALIDATION DEFINED. PEACE IS FINALLY MINE."

From the song "Selftitude" written by Dr. Stacii 

I wrote 'Selftitude' because I spent years living for the applause while carrying a heavy weight on my back.

Like so many successful women, I thought I had to choose between loving everyone else or loving myself. I fell into the trap of believing that putting myself first was not something a woman in love could do. It wasn’t proper to do me first before everyone else.

But Selftitude proves you don't have to choose. It centers on a methodology I created called ‘be the love I want to attract’—which means all the love I run to you, I gotta run that same love back to me. You can be entirely about your own expansion and still have incredible, deep love. In fact, the true power in loving others completely is choosing to love yourself 100% first. It’s about breaking old generational cycles, dropping the mask, and stepping through a brand new door where no permission is requested and your peace is finally yours. Let’s take this journey together.

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MULTIMEDIA & MEDIA INSIGHTS

Dive into Dr. Stacii’s multimedia ecosystem. Explore hard-hitting video podcast episodes, deep-dive psychological essays, and weekly cultural commentary designed to shift your relational paradigm from survival to strategy.

 


 

Video Broadcast

A Different Kinda Woman Podcast w/ Dr. Stacii

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SUBSTACK LETTER

Emotionally Safe: Learning to Rest in Your Soft Feminine Energy

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CLINICAL ESSAY

Survival Love to Relational Strategy: The High-Achiever's Pivot

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CLINICAL ESSAY

Emotional Safety for High Achievers: Overcoming the Urge to Overfunction

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MY MISSION

To help women heal, grow, and create emotionally safe, God-aligned relationships.

HEAL

We heal the past, break the cycles, and release what no longer serves us.

GROW

We grow in self-worth, clarity, boundaries, and emotional intelligence.

ALIGN

We align with our values, our purpose, and the love we truly desire.

LOVE

We create emotionally safe, steady, and fulfilling relationships.

Transformational 1:1 Experience

Private Coaching for Emotionally Safe Love

A premium relationship coaching experience for women who are ready to heal deeply, date intentionally, and attract a secure, committed relationship.

Through emotional clarity, honest reflection, and proven love strategy, Dr. Stacii helps you stop repeating the same patterns and start choosing love from a place of self-worth.

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TESTIMONIALS • REAL WOMEN • REAL TRANSFORMATION • HEALING LOVE PATTERNS • RAISING STANDARDS • CHOOSING LOVE DIFFERENTLY •

They Healed, Elevated, and Learned to Attract Love From a Place of Worth.

Free Complimentary Masterclass Training

BRIDGING THE GAP BETWEEN THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS

For the analytical, high-earning woman, the hardest distance to travel is the twelve inches from your head to your heart. Enter your private invitation to the House of H.E.A.R.T. sanctuary and receive instant access to this foundational Masterclass. Dr. Stacii breaks down the precise behavioral architecture required to align your cognitive intelligence with your emotional reality, allowing you to finally dismantle hyper-independence and step into true relational safety.

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