"I help single women fix their dating lives by coaching them and guiding them to develop their own philosophy about dating. My clients successfully rewrite their love stories as they learn how to date multiple men simultaneously.”
- STACII JAE JOHNSON

Stacii Jae Johnson’s expert dating and relationship advice has been sought after by national print, radio, online, and television outlets including Essence, Good Day D.C., NBC, CBS, Black Enterprise, VIBE, News One with Roland Martin, FOX, BET, and Good Morning Washington. She gives single women the tools they need to live full and wellrounded lives, so that when they encounter love and find a life partner, they are able to enter that union whole, full of self knowledge, and aware of their individual value.

The founder of The Single Girls Club Conference and The 1 Million Single Women Empowerment Movement, Stacii Jae is an award-winning best selling author, dating and relationship fixer, women’s empowerment advocate, and radio/TV personality. She is a seasoned public speaker with experience leading talks across the country, and she has worked with notable companies including Prudential, Macy’s, Starbucks, the online dating company Match owned BlackPeopleMeet, and Circle of Sisters Expo.

Stacii Jae wrote her first book, Date Girl! 143 Reasons Why I Believe Women Should Date Multiple Men, to share what she learned by reevaluating her own love life and making positive changes. The premise of Date Girl! is that all too often, single women give their most precious gift ― monogamy ― to men who have not shown themselves to be deserving of it. Through dating multiple men, single women become more self aware and more empowered, they relate better, and they no longer settle for relationships that are less than they deserve. Stacii Jae’s book Date, Girl! is an Amazon #1 Best Seller and a multiple Essence Festival Best Seller. Readers are calling Date Girl! the “single girl’s dating bible.”

The size of Stacii Jae’s social media community has grown tremendously since 2015. She leads several group discussions regarding dating, love, and relationships across the country, for audiences as small as 25 people and as large as 10,000+. She communicates her message on a daily basis through a private community of subscribers on Patreon called I Want A Good Man University (IWAGMU), her Single Girl Morning Motivations and her blog advice #AskStaciiJae to 60,000 social media followers. Stacii Jae was named one of the Top 25 Women in Atlanta, GA, an Audi Forward Achiever, a “go to” dating and relationship spokesperson for BlackPeopleMeet, and is a proud graduate of Spelman College.

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Praises

We’re excited to have Stacii Jae join our team to help shed a light on modern dating in the black community and beyond,” said Lakshmi Rengarajan, Director of Brand Strategy for BlackPeopleMeet. “Stacii’s not just a dating coach, she’s an advocate for black love, which is a message that strongly resonates with our brand.

- Lakshmi Rengarajan (Director of Brand Strategy, BlackPeopleMeet.Com)
Stacii Jae Johnson is a dynamic love coach, she is able to listen to your problem, unpack it, make you aware of the part you play/played in the relationship and give you quick tools to overcome, identify and improve/enhance your outcome. In just 30 minutes she was able to identify what I was doing that may not have warranted the results that I really was looking to achieve and show me a different way to approach the situation to get the desired result but didn't quite know how to get. She doesn't point fingers at you she just provides course correction and if applied properly it will change your life. You don't know what you don't know. The session was impactful & practical, now it's time to put what I learned into practice.

- Chantelle Cotton (Just Love Advice, Coaching Client)
“Stacii Jae’s book has struck a chord with women who have been on, what I call ‘relationship hamster wheels’. Date, Girl is the basis of the advice I give women when they ask for a man’s perspective. It is a MUST READ…

- David Mitchell (Corporate Banker)
Stacii is a phenomenal host and speaker and a genius in her own right! We always receive great feedback from the audience as well as the Macy's team involved in the events we have partnered with Stacii Jae to host. Her ability to connect and capture our audience as well as introduce them to the Date Girl! book series is impeccable. She is an expert in giving dating advice and her professionalism is appreciated.

- Tamara Ray (Macy’s Special Events Manager)
Stacii is a true God send. Five minutes into our first session I knew that she would be able to help me in taking my life to the next level in relationships, which in turn will help all areas of my life. There were laughs, tears and introspection all in the first session. The thing that sticks out the most is her genuineness, she heard beyond the surface of what I was saying and kept it real with me. I am excited to move forward and work with Stacii to get all that God has for me. "I can meet and receive healthy love from wherever I am.

- Monique L. (Just Love Advice, Coaching Client)
Today, I had my first session w/ Stacii and I am truly at a loss for words! From the first minute down to the last, our session was literally like food to my entire soul! It’s amazing how much she was able to tell me about myself; it’s almost as if she’d known me for years! Stacii rebuilt, restored and motivated me, not only about dating but about life in general and I’m so very grateful to her! Talking to her felt like I was speaking to a best friend, a family member and a supporting motivator all in one! Today might’ve been my first session but it will not be my last; my spirit and my soul now craves the nourishment that Stacii provided me with! She told me what I NEEDED to hear, not what I wanted to hear and again, I’m so grateful! Thank you so much, Stacii! You’ve changed my outlook on dating, relationships, marriage and life in general and I can’t wait until our next session!

- Adria (Just Love Advice, Coaching Client)
Where do I began, my daughter called me to let me know she was setting up a call for my birthday. Had no clue what it was , wow a love advisor. The call was invigorating, uplifting, (any good soul feeling exciting words I can think of). Staci made me feel so comfortable talking to her, the questions was spot on. I could fine love if I worked on certain things I was unaware of, she even gave me homework which I will be doing in a few, lol. I'm still so excited with the phone call. The techniques she gave will get me what i need and what i desire. Thank you Stacey also thanks to my daughter for putting me on the right road. Can't wait till our next chat.

- Sylvia (Just Love Advice, Coaching Client)
I have just completed my call with stacii. Words can not Express how excited I am about my future and the love that is coming towards me as I type. I left the call feeling like everything I felt I couldn't have is actually coming to me right now. Stacii style is very open honest and she makes you feel at ease. I look forward to our next call and sharing my homework with her. Her service is second to none and worth much more than she is charging. 2020 I will have the man of qualities!! Not my dreams as he is real not an imaginary person. I'm excited about love again.

- Simone Williams (Just Love Advice, Coaching Client)
“First let me start by saying I am so grateful for the counseling experience with you. My marriage hasn’t been the best lately and my first 60 minute session was phenomenal in every way. You helped my husband learn something new about me and also you helped me realize things I need to work on myself. I can not wait until my next session with you because your extremely knowledgeable about relationships and your not bias whatsoever so both me and my husband feel comfortable speaking to you. I want to end this review by saying it’s funny how my husband didn’t think relationship counseling was worth It but you were able to get him to hear you and for that - I Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

- Kenroy & Benashia (Just Love Advice, Coaching Couple)
“Wow, to say under promise but over deliver that was just an understatement. One of the best things that we can do is to invest in not only our growth in business but also our growth in personal development and healing. This has been one of the most rewarding investments I have ever made. Stacii is not only real she is wise beyond her years. As a MAN I did not know what to expect and I am glad that I had an open mind and heart because Stacii had me focused and receiving this wisdom in minutes. I strongly encourage anyone especially my fellow MEN to reach out to Stacii, you will not be disappointed whatsoever. Thank You So Much Stacii, I am looking forward to many more discussions.

- Marquis Jones (Just Love Advice, Coaching Couple)
"As a single woman, I'm often discouraged by the dating advice for singles, however, after reading 'Date Girl,' I am inspired! The book combines humor with a serious, thought-provoking, realistic approach to "dating." I am recommending the book for everyone especially young adult women! Her advice is practical, hopeful and fun to read! Highly recommended!

- Quisa Foster (Chief Communications Officer, F2 Communications Group)
"Talking to Stacii was like talking to a old friend that wants to see you win. She gave me some honest advice that can only make me a better communicator, in all relationships not just men. Thank you Stacii it was an awesome 30mins.

- KaMaura Eley (Just Love Advice, Coaching Client)
I had my first relationship session with Stacii Jae Johnson last night. I was extremely pleased. She is easy to talk to and is committed to helping me achieve my goal. I appreciate her taking the time to learn about me and how I function so that we can be in alignment as we work together. I love that our conversation is goal oriented. It is work but doesn’t feel like it while we’re engaged. I am looking forward continuing this part of my journey with her. She is truly a blessing! Stacii Jae Johnson thank you for being such an amazing vessel and saying yes to being used to help others embrace God given love.

- Deidra Hankerson (Just Love Advice, Coaching Client)
Pick a number!" That's how my friends and I read this book! Stacii Jae's “Date Girl!” is a fun book of dating lifestyle anecdotes that are interestingly relevant, uncannily relatable and "in your face" reminders of why women need to take back their dating lives pronto! Get out of our heads Stacii!

- Lisa Haygood (Entrepreneur)
I am so motivated! I wasn’t sure what to expect with my call with Staci. She listened to me, asked plenty of questions to figure out what my issues are and what is getting in my way. She was so lively and fun. I found myself opening oil to her. By the end of the call, I had three assignments and am feeling like there is hope for me in finding love. I am so glad I had this call with Staci. Now, I’m off to do my homework so I can put the suggestions in action. I highly recommend having a session with Stacii! Like, now! I am definitely scheduling another session.

- ChaChanna S. (Just Love Advice, Coaching Client)
What an experience... just when you think you know it all, you have life all figured out yet somethings are not working in your favor... you have a person like Stacii that appears and within 5 mins is able to touch on some important life hacks that can improve your relationships and really make you re-evaluate yourself. She knows how to evaluate your circumstances with very important key information that you share with her. I was amazed at some of the things we talked about and how it seemed she was in my head. As I approach this new way of thinking and improving myself - I will definitely continue to praise Stacii for her insight.

- Venus W.,(Just Love Advice, Coaching Client)

Stacii Jae's Media Reel

“I WAS RIGHT WHERE YOU ARE RIGHT NOW: A SERIAL MONOGAMIST GIVING YOUR ATTENTION AWAY TO MEN WHO DO NOT DESERVE IT. BUT IT DOESN’T ALWAYS HAVE TO BE THAT WAY FOR YOU. I realized that I had spent most of my life being in long relationships with the wrong men. The men weren’t the problem; the problem was ME, and my perspective on dating and relationships. So I decided to go back to the beginning, which for me was dating and empowering myself to rewrite my love story."


“MY MISSION AND MY CALLING IS TO SHARE MY 20-YEAR JOURNEY ― THROUGH MY TALKS, MY BOOKS, AND MY COACHING ― WITH YOU, SINGLE WOMEN EVERYWHERE,IN HOPES THAT I CAN INSPIRE CHANGE IN YOUR LIVES AND HELP GUIDE YOU INTO HAVING THE LOVE PARTNERSHIP THAT YOU DESIRE. AND I PLAN TO DO IT ONE SINGLE WOMAN AT A TIME. I HAVE DONE THE WORK AND NOW I AM LIVING A HAPPY, HEALTHY, FULL LIFE. I AM READY TO GIVE YOU THE TOOLS YOU NEED TO DO THE SAME. YOU CAN REWRITE YOUR LOVE STORY AND ATTRACT THE LOVE YOU DESERVE.”

The Books



Date Girl - 143 Reason Why I Believe Women
Should Date Multiple Men

When it comes to picking the right career, shoes or wine, we demand choices. So why is it that we don’t think twice about giving away the most precious gift a single woman has to give―monogamy, and all that it implies―to a man who has not yet shown himself to be deserving of it?

If you’re putting the wants and needs of a man you hardly know before your own because you think or hope he’s “the one;” if dating has become an agony of second-guessing yourself and over-analyzing every text, phone call and dinner conversation; if you are constantly questioning where things are going―then this is the dating handbook you’ve been waiting for.

Alternately insightful and hilarious, Stacii Jae Johnson shares excerpts from her own dating diary, as well as her 143 reasons why she believes it is important for the single girl to date multiple men simultaneously. Date, Girl! will not only make you laugh, it will shake up everything you thought you knew about dating, shifting your focus along the way from finding Mr. Right to loving, respecting, honoring and empowering yourself.

Date Girl Workbook Description

The Date, Girl! Workbook: A Self-discovery Guide for Women Who Are Dating Multiple Men

Most of us go about dating all wrong. All too often, we choose the person to whom we want to give ourselves way too soon. This workbook, a companion to Date Girl! 143 Reasons Why I Believe Women Should Date Multiple Men, will help you to put the brakes on that kind of behavior. 

Dig into thirty-two carefully selected questions from Date, Girl! and really start to understand what is going on during your dates, both between you and your date, and inside of YOU. Use this workbook to hone in on the qualities that you really want and need in a man, some of which you may not yet be aware of. Learn who you really are, and who you are becoming.

Date, Girl! 143 Reasons Why I Believe Women Should Date Multiple Men-NO Intimacy: 2nd Edition Includes a Self-discovery Guide With Tools To Help You on Your Dating Journey Paperback

When it comes to picking the right career, shoes, or wine, we demand choices. So why is it that we don’t think twice about giving away the most precious gift a single woman has to give - monogamy, and all that it implies - to a man who has not yet shown himself to be deserving of it?

If you’re putting the wants and needs of a man you hardly know before your own because you think or hope he’s “the one;” if dating has become an agony of second-guessing yourself and over-analyzing every text, phone call, and dinner conversation; if you are constantly questioning where things are going - then this is the dating handbook you’ve been waiting for. Alternately insightful and hilarious, Stacii Jae Johnson shares her 143 reasons why she believes it is important for the single girl to date multiple men simultaneously.

The Single Girl’s Dating Journal

The Date, Girl! Workbook: A Self-discovery Guide for Women Who Are Dating Multiple Men

This dating journal can be used as a wonderful companion to Date, Girl! 143 Reasons Why I Believe Women Should Date Multiple Men or as a stand alone dating journal. The premise behind that book, and this journal, is that most of us go about dating all wrong. All too often, we choose the person to whom we want to give ourselves way too soon.

Brimming with inspirational dating advice, questions for you to ask yourself as you reflect upon your dates, and suggested questions for you to ask a man as you are getting to know him, this Dating Journal is a must-have for every single girl, regardless of her personal dating philosophy.

The Single Girls Club

The Single Girls Club is comprised of an online group of single women across the country who desire to find love, but are NOT going to accept it just any old kinda way. We are not "Love by the 10th Date" or "Crazy, Stupid Love", or any of the other negative stereotypes that Hollywood and the media try to portray SINGLE WOMEN as.

Hollywood tries to label us as desperate, depressed and just open and available to take any man that comes our way. They have given us their version of being SINGLE. Now it's time to give them ours. The Single Girls Club experience contains an array of events including: The Single Girls Club Conference, Power Dating, Single Girls Talk and Single Girls Who Brunch.

THE MISSION
The Single Girls Club mission is to provide single females with the tools needed to live a full and whole life while single, so that when love comes into their lives and they find a life partner, they will enter that union whole, full of self knowledge, and aware of their individual value.

The Single Girls Club Conference (TSGC) 

The Single Girls Club Conference (TSGC) launched in 2105 and has grown to a 7 City Tour with a focus on empowering women in love, life, business, finance, health and wellness. Expected attendance: 200+ female influencers in each city.

POWER DATING™

Stacii Jae Johnson’s Power Dating™ brings together male and female influencers making power connections to become power couples. Expected attendance: 100+ male and female influencers in each city.

SINGLE GIRLS WHO BRUNCH

The Single Girls Who Brunch experience where women come together for fine dining, networking and empowerment. Expected attendance: 200+ female influencers in each city.

SINGLE GIRLS TALK

Single Girls Talk (SGT) is a hour of power hosted by Stacii Jae Johnson and co-hosted by a male celebrity guest. During SGT single ladies ask the questions they want answered. The topic of conversation is around dating, love and relationships. Real Questions. Real Answers. NO TALK IS OFF LIMITS!

Events

Solidarity Movement amongst single women where 1 million single women stand together accepting the challenge pledge. The goal is to build connections and reshape the stigma attached to being a single woman.

THE MISSION
The 1 Million Single Women Empowerment Movement mission is to inspire 1 million single women to stand together accepting the challenge pledge, build connections and reshape the negative stigma attached to being a single woman in the 21st century. Though an online community


Like and Follow "Date, Girl" on Facebook


Share the 1 Million Single Women Empowerment Challenge video to your social media (Twitter, Instagram, Facebook)


Challenge your single girlfriends to join the movement


#1MSWEC #1MSWM

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